Posts Tagged ‘society’
The Bully is Awake: How my Daughter Lifted me out of the Abyss
In Call to Action on 10 November 2016 at 12:00 pmBathrooms Accessible in Every Situation (BABIES) Act
In News & Notes on 7 October 2016 at 8:00 pmBathrooms Accessible in Every Situation (BABIES) Act
It is crazy that we need an Act to ensure that bathrooms are accessible in every situation but let it not be said that Obama just ignored the need as so many presidents before him. Just in the nick of time too. Thanks to his timely action, the men save face and can be satisfied that it did not need to wait for a woman president to make sure that they had a place to change babies diapers in public restrooms.
Father, tell me about Kashmir
In How on 23 July 2016 at 11:00 amA young boy asks his father, “What happened in Kashmir?”
Those of us sheltered from the daily horrors that have become a way of life in far too much of the world may be unprepared to answer honestly when our children ask us questions like this. How do we reveal much less “explain” the violence in the world, when we don’t quite understand it ourselves?
Fred Rogers said about talking to young children about such events – “look for the helpers.” In any horrible scene (e.g. that you might read in the news) there will also be people who are helping, even if it is only the reporter bringing public attention to it. Equally or rather more important are those who help prevent violence and disaster. Their work may be less visible meaning we need to “look” for them in other ways.
Going one step further, one can try to be a helper – even from a distance, as this father tried to do.
“B, We have to go a protest today. Do you want to come too?”
“What is this protest, Acha (Dad in Malayalam)?”
“It is about a place called Kashmir. A lot of people have been killed and blinded there by the police and the army.”
“What happened there?”
“Ok, Let me tell you…..”
Priceless Birthday Presents
In How on 12 June 2016 at 2:43 pm
We All Live in Bhopal: Sign Petition to White House
In Call to Action on 8 May 2016 at 12:50 pmThe Mother hiding her face with one hand and carrying her child in the other, weeps for all of us. This is the Memorial Statue honoring the victims of what many call the world’s worst industrial disaster, the explosion in the Union Carbide factory in Bhopal on December 3, 1984. Survivors have been struggling for justice for over 30 years and are now petitioning the White House meet US obligations under Treaty & international law by immediately serving notice upon Dow to attend court in Bhopal on July 13, 2016.
Sign here: Tell the US Government to Stop Shielding Dow Chemical from its Crimes in Bhopal
We all live in Bhopal – please SIGN the PETITION. And please share widely. It’s what Julia Ward Howe, who proclaimed Mother’s Day in 1870 would do.
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Why do the poor not have money?
In Why on 22 December 2015 at 10:57 amWe pick up our conversation on Talking about Poverty with Toddlers with further musings on a question that followed from Why doesn’t Gandhi have clothes?
Nine picture books (and the winner is .. .)
In Books on 6 December 2015 at 8:00 pmOn the heels of one picture book spree I intrepidly went into the library for another. I had not set out to do so when I left home. One thing led to another … it happened like this: Late in the afternoon, I stepped out to take in the atmosphere of townsfolk streaming out of downtown after the Christmas parade, while hundreds more stayed at Shamrock Park for the sing-along and tree lighting. Normally among pedestrians, persons of color are the majority even though we make up only 10% of the population of Bel Air. But on a few days like today and the fourth of July, we can take to the sidewalks and experience the sense of being a visible minority in our charming little town. Nothing dramatic, all very subtle and on the whole pleasant. (But still.)
I reached Shamrock Park and saw the tip of the bonfire flicker against the setting sun over the swarm of heads. Only a few seconds after the countdown reached zero, followed by a coaxing, “hello!” the lights came on around the tree at the Town Hall.
Whiteness, Food Colors, and Food Culture
In How on 4 September 2015 at 8:00 amFood Colors and Food Culture
“No race ever yet ate black bread when it could get white; nor even brown, yellow, or other mulatto tint.”
Dr. Woods Hutchinson in McClure’s magazine, 1906.
In the mass conversion towards refined and processed foods that has swept much of the world over the past few generations, many foods normally occurring in a wide variety of earth tones, became white, as if a formidable fairness cream had descended upon the food industry. White flour, white sugar, white bread, white spaghetti, white rice, white upma ravva, white urad dal occupied the markets. At first a status symbol for those who could afford them, refined foods later became a status symbol for those who need not eat the coarser grains because they lived a delicate life and could hire workers to do their heavy lifting for them. Eventually they themselves became cheaper than their whole grain counterparts, while the nutritious polish and peels were diverted to the livestock industry.
Thirty years ago, Sidney Mintz unpacked the social, economic and political context of food in his seminal work, Sweetness and Power. The history of whiteness and power with respect to food offers much to explore. While evolutionary biology may account for our predilection towards the quick calories that processed foods offer, taste and food habits evolve under a variety of influences and cultural messages. Read the rest of this entry »
Black Gram Matters
In Recipes, When on 1 September 2015 at 2:04 amSince when are idlis white?
Not more than a few generations. And if you look at all things that have become white over the past century, one by one they are regaining their color. White bread, white pasta, white flour, white sugar, white rice are now recognized as more or less empty calories and are being replaced by their whole counterparts, on the brown to black side of the color spectrum. It is time for idlis to do the same.

Black Gram (Urad): Soaked and ready to burst out of its skin! Urad or Black Gram attracts wild yeast from the air. As it ferments, the yeast makes the batter rise.
What are idlis made of? Black gram and rice. Or black gram and millets. Read the rest of this entry »
Why doesn’t Gandhi have clothes?
In Why on 25 August 2015 at 2:24 pmWe were recently reading a book on Grandpa Gandhi to my 3 yr old. The picture of Gandhi with his naked body caught her imagination and she got started on her “why?” It started out with me explaining that Gandhiji doesn’t wear a shirt and ending in why do the poor not have any money. Here is part of our conversation:
N: Gandhi tata ke paas kapde kyon nahin hain?
Why doesn’t Grandpa Gandhi have clothes?
M: Kyonki unke pas paise nahin the… wo garib the.
Because he did not have money. He was poor.
[At this Bala corrected me with a better answer/correct reason.]
M: Kyonki wo garib logon ki tarah rahna chahte the.
Because he wanted to live like the poor.
N: kyon? Why?


